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Now that you’ve collected all the papers
you can find related to finances, how do you use them to find out
how much money you have? Are you on solid ground financially, or
are there potential problems you need to address? These are particularly
important questions to answer because your loved one’s financial
decisions may have been compromised by his or her suffering, sense
of hopelessness, and/or underlying psychiatric illness. These illnesses
can lead individuals to exhibit unpredictable, destructive behavior
before their death, such as accumulating debt, spending money uncontrollably,
and making bad, impulsive decisions. This behavior can create serious
financial problems that are unknown to survivors until their loved
one’s death. If you find yourself in this situation, it’s
normal to feel angry, and even betrayed.
This worksheet
will help you organize the information you’ve collected and
develop a snapshot of your total financial situation. To complete
this worksheet:
• Write down the “fair market
value” of everything you own, including your home, car, savings,
and investments, then add these up. Fair market value is the amount
you could get if you sold these possessions and is not the same
as an insurance value. Remember also, sentimental value has no dollar
value. These are your total assets.
• Write down the full amounts (not
just the monthly payments) of what you owe on your home, car, and
other loans, and add them up. These are your total liabilities.
• Subtract your liabilities from
your assets to learn your net worth. The higher your net worth,
the more comfortable your financial position.
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