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This is the hardest time, when grief is the
freshest.
It will be easier to handle these essential milestones with the
help of family, close friends, and trusted advisors.
• Arrange
the funeral/memorial service.
• Call or write to close associates
and advisors, such as lawyers, accountants and business partners.
Tell them your loved one has died and when and where the funeral
is scheduled, and ask for their help in collecting important financial
papers and executing business agreements.
• Secure 15 to 20 official copies
of your loved one’s death certificate from the funeral director,
health department, or clerk of the county in which your loved one
died. (Be sure to read the original carefully before copies are
made to ensure all information is accurate, complete, and readable.
Even small errors can cause administrative headaches and delays
later on.) It’s usually easiest to request all the official
copies at once and keep them in a secure location. Extras can be
tucked away for future needs. Although there is a cost for each
certificate over a certain number, you’ll need several and
photocopies generally are not accepted. The following companies
and agencies represent a partial list of those that are likely to
request copies of the death certificate in order to verify the death
and either change the name on the account or send money due to you:
• Social Security Administration
• Department of Veterans Affairs
• Your loved one’s
employer
• Credit card companies
• Banks, credit unions, savings
and loans, investment firms
• Companies in which your
loved one held stock directly instead of through a brokerage firm
• Mortgage company
• Insurance companies
• Look for a copy of your loved
one’s will.
• Make at least the minimum payment
on all bills you are responsible for paying, and pay them on time
to avoid late charges and damage to your credit record.
• Claim Social Security, veteran,
or civil service survivor, dependent, and/or death benefits as appropriate.
Social Security survivor benefits can provide welcome income if
you have young children. The amount depends on the average lifetime
earnings of your loved one. The Social Security Administration can
be reached at 1-800-772-1213 or online at www.ssa.gov.
If your loved one was a state employee, contact your state civil
service office. Or, if your loved one was a federal employee, contact
the Office of Personnel Administration at 1-888-767-6738 or www.opm.gov.
• Contact insurance agents or life
insurance companies that issued policies on your loved one. Ask
what benefits you can expect. Request claim forms and instructions
for completing the forms.
• Contact your loved one’s
employer. Ask about benefits due to you, such as deferred salary,
bonuses, retirement plans, pensions, and accrued vacation time.
Contact previous employers as well. There may be money sitting in
retirement or pension plans.
• Open a checking account in your
own name, if you don’t already have one.
• If you are
covered by a loved one’s health insurance plan at work, notify
the company’s human resources department, in writing, within
30 days of his or her death. That way, you and any dependent children
may be eligible to keep the same insurance coverage for up to three
years at your expense. Be on the lookout for a notice from the company
stating that you are eligible for continued coverage. You must reply
to this notice within 60 days to stay in the plan.
• If your loved one was covered
by your health insurance plan, write to the plan provider. Your
premium will probably be reduced.
• Send a letter (certified mail/return
receipt) to all of your loved one’s creditors, such as credit
card companies, banks, and other lenders, and keep copies of these
letters. If your loved one was the only signer on a loan, the creditor
can seek payment from his or her estate.
• Contact a lawyer about settling
your loved one’s estate. See “Settling
the Estate,” for more information.
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